First time I’ve been mentioned in the same breath as @pewdiepie lol. I’m traveling 124 days this year but I’ve gotten much better at delegating and I have the capital to do so which really helps. Still working 12-16 hour days when home though! I think I’m more ambitious than I ever was pre-exit. Just not the most interesting to show work days on vlogs (although I would like to show more of them personally)
The key to killing self-doubt is building a mental maintenance routine.
Choose from the catalog of proven options:
Meditation
Yoga
Working Out
Nature
Coffee/Tea
Music
Dance
Motivational Audiobooks/Videos
Non-Fiction Reading
...etc
Once you've found what works for you, don't rely on motivation to make it happen.
Systematize it into a maintenance routine.
When I was running my startup, my morning maintenance was:
15 Minutes Non-Fiction Reading
15 Minutes Walking Outdoors + Motivational Listening + Visualization
When things got really bad, I'd add meditation.
It doesn't matter what you do. Just find what works for you and treat it like critical maintenance.
By definition, 1 in every 10 days will be a bottom 10% day for you.
Rather than trudging through your to-do list, commit to accomplishing one important thing on your worst days.
After you accomplish it, check in with yourself.
Do you still feel like working?
Go for it.
But if you don't, that's okay too.
It's just one of those days.
Shift your workload around and fill the time with other productive tasks like reading.
Prioritize sleep and get back on the grind tomorrow.
Don't let a bad day turn into two.
I have never met a founder who wasn't wrecked with crippling doubts, sweaty sleepless nights, and bouts of depression.
Yes, even the founders who tell you they're "crushing it" all the time.
Eventually, you learn most are just posturing on the off chance you have investor intros for them.
By definition, you are doing something hard. Something uncertain.
And your body's natural response to uncertainty is anxiety and doubt.
Instead of panicking when those feelings hit, understand it's part of the journey.
When the feeling comes, acknowledge it's a normal reaction and keep moving forward.
"Specific knowledge is found by pursuing your genuine curiosity and passion rather than whatever is hot right now." - @naval
Probably a good reminder in the age of copycat AI startups.
Underrated AI prompt: "What's something I don't even know about myself?"
The insights I got back opened my eyes to behavioral patterns I didn't even know were holding me back.
The only thing standing between who you want to be and reality is your self-image.
The moment you stop believing "that's just the way I am" and start believing "I can be whoever I want to be" everything changes.
A friend got a $100M acquisition offer.
He wanted to accept.
His board said no.
They said it was worth more.
In reality, the returns just weren't big enough for them to care.
He begged them to change their minds.
They didn't.
Nine months later, the company went bankrupt.
He walked away with nothing.
Choose your investors wisely.
Harsh truth I learned from hiring 200+ people. Interviews are a poor indicator of success in a role.
At most, 50% of the hiring decision should be based on the interview process.
The other 50% should come from reference checks.
At least 2 of those should be backdoor references.
Anything less and you're just gambling.
Startups are expected to grow 200-300% YoY. Minimum.
If you're a CEO and you're not getting 200-300% better every year, the board has a fiduciary duty to replace you.
Sadly, the same thing goes for your team members.
The fastest way to get ahead of 99% of people is to get into rooms they don't have access to.
The best ways to gain access to rare rooms (ranked easiest to hardest):
Ask for it
Pay for it
Work for it
If the first doesn't work, keep offering.
You won't succeed every time, but just a few conversations can change your entire life trajectory.
Trees grown without strong winds don't grow old.
They literally die as their branches break under their own weight.
They lack what scientists call "reaction wood" or "stress wood," which is only created in the presence of wind.
As the winds hit, the wood is forced to strengthen, changing the underlying cell structure of the wood.
There's profound wisdom in this simple law of nature.
Hope it helps you see stress differently this week.