avacado birdy

shoo

[allison harvard burke @alliharvard]

pottering cats playing cards

[Jeff Geerling @geerlingguy]

Very neat open source city map poster generator (found via HN) https://t.co/xaQqc2T5iS — here's St. Louis, MO

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

Nothing erodes attraction faster than feeling like you have to teach another adult how to behave like a thoughtful, respectful, self-aware, and emotionally mature person.

[VB Knives @Empty_America]

It's not surprising that many smart people figure out how to do what they want directly.

Instead of working 50 years and retiring to work on esoteric passion projects . . . they just figure out how to do the project now.

[ηιүα ♛ @niy2pretty]

You cannot love a person into loving you

[avacado birdy @avacadobirdy]

@TOKYOLUV Where was the third photo clicked?

[Reads with Ravi @readswithravi]

Action relieves anxiety. Remind yourself this everyday.

h/t: @ash_lmb

[blue @bluewmist]

my father always told me: "if you want to go for a run, go for a run, don't look for company. sooner or later, on your fifth run or your twentieth, likeminded people will find you themselves." and only recently have I realized that this principle works everywhere.

[kawaii 🪼 @magicmoxo]

can’t be out here losing your mind over somebody who doesn't even mind losing you

[Madame Black Swan 🕷🦢 @DrIndyEinstein]

your nervous system replays the past + predicts the future based on old data. if you don’t reprogram it you’ll literally keep reliving the same patterns.

[Zoya🕊️ @Zoya_ki_batein]

I will marry a handsome, lovey dovey, clingy obsessesy, kissy huggy, touchy feely Man. Y'all can keep the non-chalant ones !!

[Veronica, Collagen Scientist 🇵🇱 @celestialbe1ng]

Women being attracted to men’s hands goes sooo much deeper than just aesthetics. A man’s hands are the first instruments of power, the tools that seize, break, build, and protect, carrying the weight of centuries of blood memory. They are the echoes of warriors gripping swords, hunters clutching spears, blacksmiths forging steel, and fathers lifting their children; each callous, vein, and scar a testament to survival and dominance. Women, at the deepest level of instinct, recognise in them the raw force of creation and destruction, the physical embodiment of strength and agency. Hands impose will upon the world, shaping it with the primal certainty of flesh acting upon matter.

There is something undeniably erotic in this: the knowledge that these hands can both devastate and cradle, that they are equally capable of ruin and reverence.

The attraction is old, deep, something felt in the body before it is understood in the mind, almost like an ancient recognition of what it means to yield to power, and a carnal memory almost too deep to name.

[GRITCULT @GRITCULT]

Da Vinci on agency.

[stressed @onlystresstoday]

Maybe it's true that people get tired of you when you show them too much love

[divenire @divya_venn]

i have a theory that chronic need for external validation (in the form of prestige/status/popularity/whatever) is eliminated by actually having family, friends, and above all a partner that you actually like and respect

[Zoya🕊️ @Zoya_ki_batein]

Sis, a Man who loves you, will naturally wanna feed you, take you out, call/ text you, buy you flowers & treat you like a priority. If he's not doing those things then he doesn't care about you. Believe me, a man will always ACT right for a girl he really WANTS !!

[Zoya🕊️ @Zoya_ki_batein]

When he says "let's fix this, I can't lose you" instead of acting nonchalant & mean >>