Orang dewasa punya standar tinggi kalau ketemu anak kecil.
Di mata orang dewasa, anak harus ceria, harus mau respon segala pertanyaan, harus mau salim, harus mengikuti norma sosial dengan perfect.
Anak kecil teriak dikit
"Gak diajarin ortunya ya?"
Anak kecil nangis
"Kok cengeng sih?"
Anak kecil slow to warm up
"Masih kecil udah introvert ya"
Anak kecil ikut ortu nongkrong, bosen, butuh input stimulus lain
"Rewel ya ternyata"
Kata gw mah elu yg rewel. Udah dewasa tapi judgemental banget ke anak-anak. Anak kecil tuh sedang belajar memahami dirinya sekaligus memahami dunia yang semua isinya tuh besar-besar. It gets too overwhelmed sometimes. It's a part of the growth process. Mari kita jadi orang dewasa yg wajar gitu lho.
Her clothing showcases many traditional techniques: zharan, plantbased dyeing, and embroidery
It reflects the everyday #hanfu of ordinary ppl; while it lacks ornate patterns but adds color and personal touch through various thoughtful details
#逐玉#ChineseArt#PursuitofJade
(ignore me/imo time 😅) i honestly can’t be mad at #xiezheng for keeping up the facade. from what i can tell and from what i've seen in other cdramas, he stepped in b/c he didn’t want #fanchangyu to take the beating. that’s why he had to keep up the lie that he was just a soldier. they wouldn’t punish the marquis the same way.
as her husband, he chose to take the punishment himself b/c the military runs on laws, discipline, and strict hierarchy. and beyond that, he also has to think about the lives of hundreds of soldiers under his command.
i’m not saying #fanchangyu doesn’t have the right to be angry when she finds out he lied to her. her feelings are completely valid. but i don’t really understand why all the hate is directed only at xiezheng. there are expectations and responsibilities he has to carry as a marquis. he's only trying to protect her in his way, as she is trying to protect him in her own way too.
and there are other layers to this as well. overall, the circumstances haven’t really allowed him to be completely honest with her. but that’s part of their journey — growing not only as a couple, but also as individuals.
i do love how he gets his soldiers to play along. they're probably confuse af at his behavior 😂
#pursuitofjade #zhanglinghe #tianxiwei
Semua pihak yang terlibat dalam operasi penyiraman air keras kepada aktivis Andrie Yunus, semoga sakaratul mautnya dipersulit, tanah ga terima jasad lu pada ya bajingan
THR masyarakat cair, dihitung sebagai penghasilan. dipotong pajak dengan angka yang gak ngotak.
di saat yg sama, mismanage negara bikin ekonomi amburadul. program korup tetap berjalan. yang protes dibubarkan, diserang, disiram air keras.
Seorang guru bilang dia 10 tahun bekerja masih ga mampu beli iphone, di postingan karyawan MBG yg pamer beli iphone hanya dg beberapa bulan kerja.
Malah gurunya dibuli.
Sarap ini emang.
Semoga yg buruk-buruk dilimpahkan padamu hei orang yg tak menghargai guru!
Ternyata anak SD yg suicide itu gak hanya tentang sulitnya punya buku dan pensil. Tapi juga uang sekolah yg selalu ditagih setiap hari dan administrasi bansos yg tak kunjung cair. Semoga kerak neraka untuk mereka yg mempersulit orang² miskin dan tak berdaya.
YOU GUYS DON'T KNOW HOW HUMILIATING THIS IS FOR US. PALESTINE WAS ONE OF THE FIRST COUNTRIES TO RECOGNIZE INDONESIAN INDEPENDENCE AND THIS IS HOW THE CURRENT ADMINISTRATION REPAYS THEM?