women in the prophet’s era did businesses and took part in battles, and somehow today’s muslim men think it’s ‘modernism’ if a woman wants more than housework. the problem isn’t modern women, its your insecurity that cant see them doing better than you.
I love smart women because the dots need to connect. You can’t say you want children but there’s no mention of said children or fatherhood in your dreams and goals. It’s because you are expecting the mother to do all the hard labour. The signs are always there, ladies 💕
men are the real gold diggers. they expect you to give them your body, play maid, cook their meals, raise their kids, clean their mess, pamper their fragile egos, and take the brunt of emotional labor, all while holding down a job and splitting the bills
The society was busy telling the girls to jaga aurat, jaga pemakaian, this n that. But NOBODY were telling their son NOT to rape. Sexual jokes were fine n became a part of the culture. It's like a norm to look at women sexually. It’s the whole fucking society
Misogyny literally kills. This is why I tak layan ppl who blame feminism for any damn thing “my manly feelings got hurt bc a woman said something I disagree w so now I’m making it everyone’s problem” fuck off lah there’s women & girls being MURDERED bc of male fragility & hatred
Adik-adik. It's ok to be rejected, if someone doesn't love you back. It's not a humiliation. You can turn that feeling into art, into a story, into a song. Be an author. Start a band. Be cool. Learn to love your own company. Cool people are always alone. Remember that.