Yes, we are Xenophobic. That's why 14 South African soldiers died in Congo in 2025 fighting for the people of Congo.
When Nigerians kidnapped 200 girls, the African Union did nothing
When Zimbabwe massacred its people, the African Union did nothing, but South Africa stepped up and gave Zimbabweans ZEP, for them to live and work in South Africa.
We have been giving Africans asylums, and today, we are labeled as haters of Africans.
We are overcrowed, disrespected by the same people we extended our hands when their leaders abused and killed them.
Le ungrateful le marete.
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The fact that South Africa is just next door and I don't even dream of living there, but we have people 10 thousands of kilos away crying, huffing and puffing day and night just because South Africans are telling them to stay there and fix their countries is crazy.
People are begging you to help yourself and you're getting offended?
Are you really that hopeless and desperate?
How to let go of someone you loved:
Start by letting go of the habits that keep you tied to them. Stop checking their name. Stop wondering if they saw your story. Stop hoping they’ll come back around. If they truly wanted to be there… they would be. And as hard as it is to accept— silence is an answer. Give yourself permission to create space. Mute what you need to mute. Remove what keeps reopening the wound. Yes, it might feel like losing them all over again… but that’s part of it. Because you’re not just grieving them— you’re grieving the version of you that believed it would last. And that deserves compassion. Forgive yourself for staying. You didn’t stay because you were weak— you stayed because you cared, because you hoped, because you saw something worth holding onto. There’s nothing wrong with loving deeply. But now it’s time to stop searching for answers in the past. Stop rereading old messages. Stop trying to decode memories. You already got your answer… even if it hurt. They made their choice. And as painful as that truth is— it’s also your closure. Let yourself feel it. Cry when it hits. Sit with the emptiness when it shows up. Don’t rush to fill the silence just because it feels unfamiliar. Healing isn’t pretending you’re okay… it’s being honest when you’re not. And don’t confuse missing them with needing them. Missing someone is human. It doesn’t mean they were meant to stay. It doesn’t mean you should go back to what broke you. Stop watching their life from a distance. Stop comparing yourself to what they chose after you. Their path is no longer yours. Start choosing yourself again. Talk to the people who remind you who you are. Write what you feel. Let it out slowly. There’s no timeline for healing. Some days you’ll feel strong. Other days you’ll feel like you’re starting over. Both are part of the process. Just don’t lose yourself while trying to let them go. Because you were whole before them… and little by little, you’ll find your way back to that version of yourself again. Don’t focus on getting them back. Focus on getting you back. That’s the kind of love that never leaves.
Yoruba Greatness: See the 80 Nigerians from yariba tribe, that was arrested by @FBI after being trailed for 2 years for criminal activities in the State. All 80 are Yorubas!!!!! 😂
Yariba are cursed tribe fr!!!!
A ngga with no emotional intelligence will wear you TF down… every conversation turn into tension, every time you open up he take it personal, every issue somehow circle right back to YOU. Baby that ain’t no miscommunication… that’s straight immaturity
Tolerating a man always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due
Not to sound delusional, but please pray for grace. Life isn't really about hard work. It's more about alignment, meeting the right people, grace, mercy, and favour.
A man calling you “baby” means nothing. A man calling you his girlfriend means nothing. A man marrying you means nothing. A man changing his ways to keep you means something