My daughter holds me accountable all the time for everything without even trying. Makes me handle situations with peace and patience when I really want to flip tf out
If I tell you I’m fine, know that I am probably not. But what I won’t do is ask anybody for assistance ever again. Per usual, imma figure it out. I got me. Always.
The key is to not get mad. But become less interested. Saves you energy, doesn’t take you out of character. Control your emotions. They’re expecting a reaction.
It’ll confuse the other party & have them contemplating. Chess not checkers.