allow them to misunderstand you. they have no idea how deeply you’ve had to dive into chaos to meet yourself and the fire you’ve had to walk through to become who you are today. their projections aren’t your responsibility to carry.
I'm not overextending myself to anyone this year, if the energy isn't reciprocated I'm letting the relationship fall through the cracks. That goes for anyone.
If I ever stop talking to you & remove you from my life, just know how hard it was for me. I have a habit of holding onto the little bit of good in people & giving too many chances. So if I don’t fw you anymore, it’s bcoz you pushed me past my limits — but when I'm done, I'm done
One of the downsides of being an emotionally intelligent person is that you’ll be able and willing to see & understand things from everyone else’s POV…but people are rarely capable or willing to give that same grace of understanding towards u.
An eternal frustration.
sometimes when people hurt my feelings all i can think is i’m literally so soft, kind, sweet, delicate and angelic to you — how could you do that to me. 🥹
If you're wondering if you will ever find that feeling of love, deep soul bonds, and intimacy again... you will, and you will find it as many times as you need to until you karmically evolve into the person you're meant to be.
This world is so abundant in love. Your next relationship will be even more amazing than the last love you experienced because you know yourself a little better now and you're applying everything you learned from your previous relationships.
Loving, and being loved is a skill that ages like fine wine as long as we keep our hearts open.
Empathy without boundaries is self-destruction. Unconditional love doesn't mean unconditional tolerance. You gotta train your boundaries to be stronger than your soft heart and your mind to be stronger than your feelings. Otherwise, you'll be drained. So be kind and take no sh*t.