everyone wants a village, but no one wants to be a villager
> drive your friends to the airport
> go to their party even when you're tired
> stop cancelling last minute
> host at your place
> support the wins & losses
it's worth every ounce of effort
Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.
things we’ve left in 2024:
- dreadheads
- libra and virgo men (gemini men on probation until further notice)
- alfredo
- atlanta
- dreadheads
- men under 5’11
- lightskins
- dreadheads
- D9 men
- men born between august 23-september 22
- cybertrucks
- black conversations