This is how you apologise, explaining your point of view without victimising yourself and considering the other person's feelings. Millie didn't even get called out here, she just knew that's what he needed
Damn, I can’t stop thinking about this. Since Stolas chose not to run away with Vassago and accepted his responsibility to become Stella’s husband and have an heir, he should’ve at least shown her respect and protected her, regardless of his sexuality.