Zahra

[Zahra @byzahrap]

Consist of old habits, a slow to change.

[Zahra @byzahrap]

@GoDaddy I literally don’t know how to contact yall humanely and I’m tired of your AI customer service 😭
Yall charged me 200 USD and it has been 3 days since your team promised me that I could get my domain back.

[Zahra @byzahrap]

@clubmini1 I know, by far the best assistance that I ever got is from crazydomains. They're very helpful and fast response.

[Zahra @byzahrap]

anybody here could help me figure out on how to extend Godaddy expired domain? >< I bought the domain 2 years ago, today it is expired and I couldn't find the name under the domain list even though I already filtered for the expired one only. pls advice.

[Zahra @byzahrap]

@fatechiasso @zahprilita Wkwkkwk ga kebayang kalau beneran terjadi down production

[Vincenzo Cassano @Vcassano11]

𝘕𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘮𝘰𝘤𝘬 𝘢 𝘱𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶'𝘷𝘦 𝘯𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘧𝘦𝘭𝘵, 𝘰𝘳 𝘢 𝘴𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦𝘯'𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩.

[razan @rozllvx]

when u finally surrender, and accept that it is what it is.

[Zahra @byzahrap]

Indeed

[Mac @GoodPoliticGuy]

genuinely the sickest society on earth

[susa @prinkasusa]

being religious doesn’t mean you’re a good person. faith without kindness is just performance. beliefs don’t matter if they’re not reflected in empathy, accountability, and how you treat people when no one’s watching. character shows up in actions, not in labels or rituals

[Neto @docneto]

Marriage readiness is largely internal for men but external for women. In practice this means the right person just needs to propose to a woman and she'll say yes. For a man, the "perfect person" might be next to him and if he doesn't feel ready, he'll never propose. When he finally feels ready, he'll likely marry the next person he dates.

This is important for women to understand and internalize. You cannot singlehandedly make a man propose to you. You can be the perfect girlfriend but if he's not ready, the ring isn't coming. Do not blame yourself, it's never your fault. Hence, If marriage is a priority, only entertain advances from men who are clearly ready to marry.

How do you know a man is ready to marry? There are signs but the easiest thing is to simply ask directly what their timeline is and what state they need to be in to feel ready. Do this early and if the timeline doesn't fit yours, move on. If the timeline aligns and you start dating yet don't see a ring within the agreed timeline, please breakup and move on.

As a woman wanting to marry, always be strict with men and don't take any nonsense. The moment you start to make an excuse for a man is when he will start using your heart for kalo kalo. Men have the luxury of time, you generally don't. Men step up to the standard that women set.

[Zahra @byzahrap]

Exactly how passwords are being encrypted on any (safe) online platform that you're signing up for.
At first I thought we as an online platform management team would know, but turns out we won't.

[Abdulkadir | Cybersecurity @cyber_razz]

If your PIN is a secret, how does MTN know it’s wrong or correct?

Short answer: They don’t know your actual PIN.

When you set a PIN, MTN doesn’t store the numbers you chose. They store a secure mathematical version of it (called a hash).

When you enter your PIN, the system runs the same math on what you typed and compares the result.

Match = correct
No match = wrong

So no human sees your PIN.
The system just checks if the math lines up.

That’s how secrets stay secret

[K. @kafkaex]

Psychologically, it’s quite simple. He’s already getting the benefits without paying the cost.

Historically, commitment preceded access. Sex, cohabitation, and long-term investment were gated behind marriage or at least clear commitment. That structure forced decisions. Men had to escalate or exit. Today the order is reversed. Sex comes first. Living together comes next. Marriage becomes optional. And when the incentive structure changes, behavior follows.

From a male perspective, coasting is rational. If intimacy is consistent, domestic life is convenient, and nothing is explicitly required, there’s little pressure to escalate. This isn’t necessarily deception, it’s just passive rejection. Men often don’t end relationships they don’t intend to deepen, they simply stop advancing them.

This is why time matters. A relationship that isn’t moving forward is still moving, just not in the direction one partner hopes.

Men don’t usually reject women with words.
They reject them by not escalating.

[Nsikan @CkanJohnson]

You can’t change someone. But you will anyway.

Not through arguments or ultimatums or that thing you do where you get really quiet and hope they’ll notice you’re upset. (They never do, by the way. They just think you’re tired.) You’ll change them the way water changes stone, by being around them long enough that they start to see themselves through your eyes.

I dated someone who interrupted everyone. Constantly. Mid-sentence, mid-thought, didn’t matter. It drove me insane for months. Then one night at dinner with friends, I watched her do it again, and this time she caught herself. She looked at me, then back at the person she’d cut off, and said, “Sorry, keep going.” Nobody else even noticed. But I knew: she’d started hearing herself the way I heard her.

That’s the thing they don’t mention when they say “accept people as they are.” You do accept them. And then they feel that acceptance so deeply that they finally have enough safety to look at the parts of themselves they’ve been running from their whole lives. Not because you demanded it. Because you made space for it.

But here’s the trap: if you’re asking “can I change her” with a specific outcome in mind, you’ve already lost. You’re not in a relationship anymore. You’re in a renovation project. And people can smell that a mile away. They can feel when your love has conditions attached. It makes them smaller, more defended, and less likely to grow into anything you’d actually want. Honestly, it usually just makes them better at hiding.

The real question isn’t whether you can change someone. It’s whether you can love someone enough that they feel free to change themselves. And whether the direction they’re growing is toward you or away from you.

Sometimes you date someone, and she becomes kinder, more thoughtful, and more herself. Sometimes she becomes exactly who she’s always been, just louder. And sometimes, this is the one that hurts; she grows into someone beautiful. Just not someone beautiful for you.

You can’t control which one happens. You can only decide how long you’re willing to wait to find out.

[Zahra @byzahrap]

HAHHHHHHHH ADUH ITU PERUT APA POLISI TIDUR

[The Cats 𝕏 @TheCatsX]

chillin

[Zahra @byzahrap]

@TheFigen_ EH LUCU BANGET 😍

[Zahra @byzahrap]

@playmatejaylene Pear 🌹

[🛸 @tufthug]

Not telling my friends everything

[Zahra @byzahrap]

🥹🌹

[ᴇᴍᴍ_ʙᴜᴅᴅʏ @emm_buddy]

Normalise saying "Astagfirullahi wa atubu ilaihi" the moment you feel jealous, get evil thoughts, feel disappointed and hurt. Trust me, all the negativity will flee and you will feel normal and Allah will become happy with you.

[Zahra @byzahrap]

@ouceanside #PrayForSumatera 🥺

[Zahra @byzahrap]

@biarbumi @KEBUNMEMORl Baru mau reply, ternyata problem majority anak HI yaaa ditanya begitu 🥹 gemeter tipis dulu pertama ditanyain dospem pas propose judul skripsi