@YakubianNASA@Clonerist lol yeah BUT yourself in your current state is probably closer to that dog getting shocked in the learned helplessness state. so try out different personalities and follow what feels good
@fjzeit 100% true. you literally can’t afford downtime, lack of verification, poor architecture in an environment where stuff needs to ship relatively fast AND you can lose potentially $1000+ per minute of downtime/potentially more for insidious bugs
@TheDuckySocks if i dont do this i just end up having 100000 threads running; i get cognitive overload quickly if i dont close menial things as soon as they come up
@escapefrommelos No it doesn’t. “How” is the best question a man not in this position can ask. if it doesn’t come with emotional baggage and he wants to take action, 99% of man can become desireable to many women
@DanielW_Kiwi@LizzyStarrrdust@MostlyMonkey guys are NOT much simpler than this; guys collectively frame controlled women for thousands of years to go against hypergamy and marry average guys (patriarchy) AND guys do weird subtle manipulation all the time, toward eachother and women. it’s a human thing