Watch how the Spanish develop their youth players and compare it to what you see in the US. We like to discuss leagues and promotion/relegation but our issues start much earlier than that.
Find a coach you trust and go w/them.
Forget about acronyms, travel, “exposure”, & do what feels right
If FOMO drives your decision on what club to play for you’re just another victim
If you’re good, & you know how to market yourself when the time is right, you’ll get found
Yes…and….between 16 and 18 my daughter went from being one level of player to and entirely new one / higher level - as she matured athletically and grew in confidence and love of the game. Ultimately, she opted to put the work in (and went to #TOVO with @_ToddBeane_ToddBeane). Importantly to the convo though - she still opted for DIII which was perfect for her. She played every game, was a three year captain, and was even an All-American too! I think as clubs/coaches/leaders we need to be encouraging all the pathways and not promising anything. Good leadership here on your post @paulspacey 💪🏼🔥