you can really be kind and respectful when communicating with someone & they would still be defensive because they’re hearing something about themselves that they don’t wanna hear
the man or woman you choose to be your partner affects everything in your life. your mental health, your peace of mind, your love inside you, your happiness, how you get through tragedies, your successes, how your children will be raised, and much more. choose wisely.
I’m becoming even more intentional about what “community” means to me. We might be into the same things, & have similar goals- but do we share the same values? Do we live by the same moral codes? Can I trust you w/ my life? With my children’s? Can we hold each other accountable?
Write yourself a letter to read this time next year, position it in present tense outlining everything you’re proud of yourself for, the memories you’re grateful for and all that you wish to achieve and experience — watch it all unfold as you script the outcomes you desire.
May you attract a divine partner who loves every single side of you. The warrior, the gentle, the loving, the sexy, the chilled, the quiet, the talkative, the vulnerable, the bold, the sensitive, the nurturing, and the powerful – the absolute whole wonderful being that you are.
After seeing all these stories about peoples partners leaving them high and dry and disappearing suddenly. I’m here to say, it’s not sudden. It’s rarely sudden. This isn’t me condoning, but explaining.
Many times people live day to day, in the moment. “We woke up, we cuddled,
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Highly sensitive people feel everything on a much deeper level. We don't just experience your surface level emotions...we feel your energy shifts, intentions, judgments, truths – and bullsh*t.
having people in our life who aren’t afraid of confrontation and jump at the chance to talk things through in a timely way to strengthen the bond is how it should be. otherwise we become surrounded by people who aren’t mature enough to build an authentic/deep connection
When it's time to let go, you will feel it in your soul. You will feel a desire to let go of what no longer serves you, so you can attract what you need. Trust this process, and know that life doesn't take anything away unless there's something else awaiting its replacement.
You deserve a calm love with someone who sees you, hears you, understands you, appreciates you, supports you, and loves you. You deserve someone who brings you peace, calmness, and consistency. A gentle loving soul who brings out your soft side – not your survival side.