The irony of a city like New York is that you need to be very well employed to live here, but you also need to be a little unemployed to really enjoy all its perks to the fullest
The "not so great" comes in 2 parts. The first and most obvious is that watching someone's life updates through a screen creates the illusion of connection where we feel "up-to-date" on that persons life, but ultimately it's a 1-way para-social relationship.
Itโs always fun to throw people off with your duality. You can be mysterious but also honest about your lived experiences. Funny but strict. You can be multiple things at once. Life is more fun that way when you have a multidimensional and layered personality.