I wish more ADHD advice talked about the guilt that comes AFTER the thing. You forgot. You were late. You interrupted. You didn’t reply. The mistake might last five minutes, but beating yourself up over it can last all day. 😭
adhd tips mah jgn suruh nyatet, alarm, reminder, to-do-list, nginget2. makin diusahakan makin kerasa bego. udah bikin duplikat aja buat semua barang penting. kalo ilang tinggal pake yg satunya. ntar jg tbtb ketemu
Stop letting people consume you. They didn’t call? Go to sleep. They didn’t message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn’t make an effort? Match their energy. Don't let anyone drain you of your happiness.
He is Jean Dreze. Crores of Indians don't sleep hungry becoz he helped shaping two of THE most imp govt policies acting as safety net, which has helped millions not fall below poverty line- MGNREGA & NFSA.
Bjp uses these schemes to beg votes.
Nobody warns you that when you finally leave the structured environment of school, your "high-functioning" ADHD hits a wall because turns out, you don't actually know how to initiate a task without a literal countdown clock.
People are attacking this person but this IS a normal trauma response and pretending like some victims don't experience this is just going to alienate victims. Everyone supports victims of rape until the victim has a messy trauma response and then everyone victim blames.
People excessively crave status, money, sex, fame, and power when they are not loved by anyone. When you are truly loved by someone, you stop turning to the world for approval.
The Cornell 7 texted “free p*ssy” to 57 men.
They sent a naked picture Jane Doe to the frat and told them the “shop was still open”.
One reply said “I hope it’s not a fatty AGAIN”.
These messages prove lack of consent.
They also strongly suggest this was not their first rape.
actually giving a shit about rape culture and the prevalence of sexual assault will drive you slowly insane like it actually is enough to completely lose hope in all of humanity
Btw, even in the summary of her statement, Doe does not describe people stopping when she told them to stop. She describes them ignoring her until she insists, then making her do more ketamine and lacking memory of what happened afterwards, likely because she lost consciousness.
As a fellow autistic person, I get this. A LOT of networking advice IS manipulative, bc it teaches us to treat people as opportunities.
But there's nothing wrong with genuine relationships opening doors. Genuine connections SHOULD open doors, not replace qualifications.