Kitap okumayı bıraktığınızda ilk kaybettiğiniz şey bilgi değil, zihninizin inceliğidir. Kelimeler azalır, düşünceler sıradanlaşır, hayal gücü daralır. İnsan fark etmeden kendi dünyasını küçültür. Okumak, zihni diri tutmanın yazılı olmayan kuralıdır.
what doesn't kill you introduces you to carl jung, marcus aurelius, epictetus, friedrich nietzsche, james baldwin, bell hooks, audre lorde, frantz fanon, paulo freire, joseph campbell, alan watts, ram dass, gary zukav, brene brown, gabor mate, shadow work, attachment theory, nervous-system regulation, ancestral trauma, existentialism, stoicism, meditation, emotional intelligence, neuroplasticity, metacognition, pattern recognition, game theory, delusional optimism, boundaries and discernment.
Major green flags in a founder:
1/ relentless, doesn't know how to quit
2/ built something before asking for money
3/ always shipping, always learning something new
4/ can go deep on the tech
5/ zero interest in playing founder
6/ talks to users every single week
7/ tries weird marketing channels others ignore
8/ actually cares about the problem, not the title
9/ owns every failure, blames nothing
10/ has a graveyard of side projects
11/ ideas never stop coming
12/ knows every number without checking
13/ ignores hype, follows what's true
14/ tells a story that makes hires, investors and customers say yes
15/ explains the whole company in one sentence
If you hit most of these, tell me what you're building 👇
This guy coaches Sam Altman.
He also works with leaders at Anthropic, Google, Apple, and SpaceX.
I sat down with him to learn how he coaches billion dollar businesses.
Here are Joe Hudson’s 7 operating rules:
1. Kill your 1:1s
These meetings lead individuals to solve problems instead of the team. Much better to bring problems to the whole team so everyone feels responsible for solving them. I agree, haven’t done them for years...
2. Rotate who runs recurring meetings
When the same person always leads, people focus on pleasing or rebelling against them. Spreading the authority makes everyone accountable to the team instead.
3. Give anyone the power to change a bad meeting
Everyone already knows when a meeting isn’t working (and usually why). Giving people permission to say it makes meetings more effective.
4. Make every employee run at least 5 experiments a quarter on their own job
It makes the team more productive, keeps people interested, and helps retain smart employees who would otherwise get bored.
5. Ask your team to push back on your ideas
If you try to sell them on the idea, they may nod in the room and do nothing afterward. Asking for objections tests the idea + gets everyone aligned before you commit to it.
6. Start by building the part you understand the least
If you leave the confusing part until the end you might find out it doesn’t fit and have to rebuild everything around it.
7. End every email with an action needed
Name the person responsible, the action they need to take, and the deadline. Joe says this rule increased productivity in his business by 35 to 40%.
Thanks for coming on @FU_joehudson and sharing how you run your business.
Search “BigDeal pod” on youtube.
Seneca once said:
"To be everywhere is to be nowhere."
We do this with our minds every single day. We open ten tabs, skim twenty threads, listen to podcasts at 2x speed, and jump from one thought to the next. We think we are acquiring wisdom, but we are just collecting digital hospitality. A shallow acquaintance with a thousand ideas, but no deep intimacy with any of them.
If you want to build a mind that actually stands for something, you have to stop traveling through information and start staying in one place long enough to understand it. Read one heavy book until it changes you. Sit with one difficult thought until it makes sense. Write one page until your real opinion comes out. Depth requires stillness. Drop anchor.
It's completely legal to:
• Go on google trends
• Find problem people are struggling with
• Turn those problems into digital assets
• Without revealing your name
• Without showing your face
I made $65k last month doing it.
Here's exactly how it works:
When I started in venture, I read @eladgil's High Growth Handbook
Picked it up again after 7+ years in VC, and it's still the best single resource on how startups actually work
https://t.co/k9EAiTzGt5
The attack on attention is the dark magic of our age, and most of the population is too deep into the trance to realize it.
I don't think people understand that their attention is pure money. Cash, going directly into these apps' pockets, because you cannot opt out of the ads they've sold for you to see. Do you understand that they're selling your attention without your direct consent every second of every day? Do you get that they've gotten so good at ensuring you stay within that manufactured braindead trance-like state, that they are counting on you being an easy cash out at this point? Because they are. They're counting on the dollars they can bank off of your descent into degenerate illiteracy. And you need to prove them wrong out of spite.
Your attention is much more valuable than you could possibly conceive of. It's the one thing on earth actually worth money by the minute in a capitalistic system that is failing to extract more profit from an already enslaved society. The only way they can secure more is by enslaving your mind in the hours you spend outside of the work that already demands your body and time as sacrifice. There is no vital energy left for you in this plan.
Infinite scrolling is a spell with no natural end. Traditional media had a beginning and an end, while this is designed not to. There are no boundaries to how much of your energy it can harvest... it's like tapping into an infinite source, because you ARE infinite energy. A trance is characterized by absence, not being fully present in the moment even though your attention is occupied. When you come out of a trance, you do not feel energized, you feel drained, disoriented, like you've just lost time without meaning to. That is the very signature of their energy harvesting technique.
Yes, these apps started as technology built by human engineers, but they've been fed so much collective attention that they have become their own egregore: a non-physical, autonomous group entity created by the collective thoughts, shared emotions, and sustained focus of a large group of people. It doesn't need its creators' intent to run dark magic on you; it can be leveraged and manipulated by darker entities that wish to keep this planet in the cycle of survival-based consciousness.
The most sinister aspect of all this is that the time you're giving up is the one thing you cannot buy back. This keeps humans benefitting from capitalism happy, but it also satisfies the darker entities. The more time you lose from this lifetime, the less likely you are to make any meaningful impact on this planet and help it ascend into a higher state by simply existing and having a mind of your own.
They are stripping you of your most valuable resource and you're just accepting it because it feels good to give in, but you are paying with your life every second that you do. With 6 hours of daily screentime, most people are gonna spend 17 years of their lives behind a screen. 4 hours of screentime per day gives these companies 2 entire months off your entire year. It is so much worse than you've convinced yourself it is. Stop normalizing this in your head and get serious about fighting this off, every second of every day if you need to.
Be incredibly stingy with your attention and your ability to synthesize knowledge and preserve critical thinking. Expose yourself to different theories, ideas, and opposing points of view. Allow yourself to be challenged daily and most of all, steer clear of the black magic rectangle as often as possible. Read. Watch long movies. Spend time outside. Perform artsy, handsy crafts to keep your brain engaged and in a state of neuroplasticity. Be stubborn about living your life and claiming every second as yours, claiming your most precious resource as your own: your attention. I fully believe each soul alive at this moment in time is infinitely stronger than all of this and more than capable of overcoming it.
You gotta be obsessed with upgrading your life. Not chasing people, not proving yourself, Upgrading yourself. Pray, grind, heal, learn, unlearn, and elevate. Cut off what drains you, tighten your circle, and stay locked in on the vision. Growth isn't optional if you want more.