@AffluentMist Be comfortable. I couldn’t care less as long as I don’t have to see anything hanging out in my face or smell anything.
There isn’t a curated atmosphere to uphold like attending a theater or going to work. It’s a flight.
@NatalyaOba If irs not illegal, look the literal other way. Alternatively, offer to take their bins out for them in the morning or don’t worry about it. Night before is 100% normal.
@dqveed This is like dating a gynecologist and waiting to tell him. If he felt that way from the beginning then he was always planning to tell you to change as soon as he felt he was close enough to you?? Like what. I’d tell him he’s free to sit in as “staff”
@JulesDiner No one has to build their home/office/business around it but my dog is absolutely child and part of this family. You won’t convince me different until you’ve lived with him.
@AkadeBemsen Her mentality of having fewer things but let it be the ones she wants makes sense. The way that she delivered it showed zero gratitude and it’s not at all how I would talk to the person that just decked on my kitchen.
It’s not what she said it’s how. and it’s what she didn’t say
@JohnSmithykjdb@wottheberry If the employed partner makes all financial decisions solely, only he has independence and power. She becomes unpaid household staff with full dependence on someone else to function. That’s not a marriage. That’s possession of another person.
@CockimusM@wottheberry Right, they should each have an allowance for free spending money. All shared expenses and savings come out first. What’s left is split 50-50 as an allowance. Straightforward budget.
@hell_line0 Another example of Medical Misogyny... considering how rare it is in men. It took a very small number of male diagnoses to devise a non-invasive way of testing.
“Male loneliness epidemic” “Men are so lonely”….. Women are lonely, too. But people don’t care because lonely women don’t murder, they go to grad school or get a rescue dog.