Here’s the “I AM” Affirmation challenge for the month of November. Self love & care are so imperative to our daily lives. During ♏️ Scorpio season, embracing change looks like rebirth.
My intentions with this challenge is to encourage self love, self care, and introspection. ☮️
If you know for a fact that you did absolutely nothing to someone and they pull away from you, it’s God. Don’t even question it. Every separation doesn’t require a discussion.
once you taste the deliciousness of moving with alignment instead of urgency, you will never go back. people around you will keep rushing and ask you why you’re not. and you will not know what to say other than, “everything just works out better when i listen to my body and God”
Please stop letting people play you. Trust your instincts, see their manipulation, and stop giving your energy to those who are hot + cold with you and don’t appreciate the real you. Grieve, cleanse your energy, use boundaries, refocus, reground & move in the ways that honor YOU.
That quiet relief when you slowly become yourself again, after walking away from people and situations that crossed your boundaries, triggered your wounds, and chipped away at your self-worth. 👌🏻
Nothing I appreciate more than living alone. Being able to sit in silence. Choose whether to cook or starve. Lie in bed all day with curtains drawn. A privilege I don’t take for granted, esp after a weekend surrounded by people and needing alone time to recharge..
PAY ATTENTION, check on y'all boyfriends and girlfriends! If somebody sleeping all day, distancing they self, you notice a lack in interest in everything, they barely eating, they barely sleeping, they got that “it is what it is” mindset all the time, it's something wrong!
literally obsessed with people who teach themselves things or invest in random classes. LEARNING IS HOT!!!! take a french cooking class. beginners sewing. adult gymnastics. doing things out of the SPICE of curiosity is HOT!!!!!
Keep things to a minimum with people this year. Dont over share your business! Whatever you’re going through, pray about it!! & any plans you make, stick to them, even if that means isolating.
You don’t need a perfect partner. You need someone who can regulate their emotions, admit when they fck up, and actually sit with uncomfortable conversations without shutting down, flipping it on you, or throwing low blows every time sht gets real.
stop getting so emotionally attached and enjoy experiences with a person. be friends. be a moment in time. be a memory. you don't have to fall madly in love with everyone who comes your way. just enjoy their presence for your moment together.
Document your life. Your fits, your friends, your family, your food, your face, your body, your trips, your outings, your reads, your lows, your highs, your midpoints & so & so & so. You don’t need to share but document, do it for yourself too first & foremost, not anyone else
i think you should romanticize life a lot, dance a lot, write things by hand a lot in beautiful journals, live for the small moments like watching the stars and drinking flower tea, and make adding more magic to your life your purpose.
Personally I think Monaleo using the attention on her wedding to educate young women on abusive relationship dynamics and then directing that momentum to a song that features PanAfrican imagery is genius. She’s doing something so important
I love walkable cities. Walk to get food so u extra hungry when you sit down to eat. Walk it off on the way back home so you’re not too full…. And u be good and tired for a nice nap.