"sleep training" a newborn means letting a defenseless baby scream for its mother in the dark until it's either exhausted or has given up on life.
the attachment literature is clear that before 6 months, a baby crying with nobody coming learns exactly one thing, that calling for help doesn't work
and you even have parents bragging about how they tortured their kid into an 8h sleep
you need to attend to every need of your child. they don't have a prefrontal cortex able to understand what's happening. if you love them and care for them, they'll barely cry, and when they do there's a clear reason you can address right away
Major cheat code in life: Be the one who reaches out. Text first. Call first. Plan first. Initialize first. Most people wait to be chosen. Be the chooser. Connection requires initiative. Friendship requires effort. Love requires action. Stop waiting to be picked. Start picking. Initiative is attractive.
Estudios de resonancia magnética han revelado algo realmente conmovedor sobre los perros y su vínculo con sus compañeros humanos.
No se trata solo de golosinas, juguetes o incluso la compañía de otros perros; el amor de los perros por sus humanos es mucho más profundo.
Investigadores descubrieron que cuando un perro percibe el olor de su dueño, una parte específica de su cerebro, llamada núcleo caudado, se activa mucho más que cuando huele comida u otro animal.
Esta área del cerebro está vinculada a sentimientos de amor, alegría y recompensa, lo que demuestra que los perros no solo reconocen el olor de su familia, sino que se sienten abrumados por la felicidad y el afecto.
Esta poderosa reacción revela que cuando nuestros amigos peludos nos miran con esos ojos de adoración o corren a saludarnos en la puerta, no es solo instinto o hábito.
En lo más profundo de sus cerebros, los perros sienten un amor genuino y profundo por nosotros, uno tan real y significativo como el que sienten otras especies animales como individuos que son y su capacidad de sintiencia.
Breaking: Oklahoma State Superintendent Ryan Walters has resigned.
This comes after a July 2025 scandal, when two members of the State Board of Education alleged that a TV in Walters’ office displayed images of naked women during a closed meeting.
Walters is the guy who directed public schools to incorporate the Christian Bible and Ten Commandments into instruction, which triggered lawsuits over church–state separation.
#URGENTE ‼️🚨 Ayúdanos a compartir 🙏🏻 para encontrar a esta mamá 👩
¿Qué juez ordenó esta barbaridad?
¿Qué fiscalia y policías participaron?
🇲🇽Interés Superior del Menor🇲🇽
The problem isn’t that men want more children but that too many men want them without restructuring their own lives to carry the burden of parenthood. If men matched their desire with an equal willingness to parent like taking the night shifts, booking the appointments,
Kids co-regulate with their caregivers.
If a parent is dysregulated & unable to self regulate this is confusing for a child.
It’s often internalized that the parent’s dysregulation is the child’s fault. The child adjusts to calm their parent.
Attachment over authenticity.