@thom_ivy_1 i.e. I don't see how the will to help or love can be added to the contract
I mean, with proper benefits the _behavior_ can be induced, but not the feelings/thoughts themselves...
@thom_ivy_1 what if the problem with relationships is not that its not a well enough defined contract and just needs optimization, but in fact it's not a contract at all, hence what destroys it is our own attitude towards it?