🌱 Becoming, building & blooming in my own time
🎓 PhD Candidate | Counselor Educator
🧠 LPC-S • NCC | Therapist • Mentor
💚 Life. Growth.
✨ Still becoming…
Glasses on. Hair up. Mind focused. 💚
Getting ready to start my day with gratitude, purpose, and a reminder that I can handle what’s on today’s plate without carrying everything at once.
One task. One moment. One day at a time. ☀️
Now…let’s get to it. 💻☕️
#MorningMood #ReadyForTheDay #PurposeDriven #GraceForToday
And as always… my ride-or-die husband. ❤️
Because caregiving doesn’t just affect the caregiver. Behind me is the man who gets in the car, adjusts the plans, helps carry the load, and simply says, “What do we need to do?”
Some days I’m caring for everybody else, and he’s quietly making sure I’m cared for too.
Marriage is more than the good times and cute pictures. Sometimes love looks like showing up, riding along, helping out, and being present when life gets heavy.
My partner. My support system. My chauffeur 😂. My ride or die. ❤️
We’re in this together. 🫶🏾
#RideOrDie #Marriage #CaregivingJourney #CaregiverSupport #MarriageInRealLife #TeamUs #LoveInAction
Caregiving doesn’t always look like caregiving. 💗
Sometimes it looks like a car ride.
A quick stop at the store.
Making sure she ate.
Checking that she took her medication.
Repeating the same answer with patience.
Watching her mood without making her feel watched.
Changing your plans because today is different than yesterday.
And sometimes, it looks like smiling for a picture while carrying a mental checklist nobody else can see.
Caregiving has become another hat I wear, and I’m learning that love can be exhausting, beautiful, frustrating, tender, and meaningful all at the same time.
Today, we ride. One day at a time. 💕🌿
#CaregivingJourney #CaregiverLife #OneDayAtATime #LoveInAction #FamilyCaregiver #MakingMemories
Save the date! 📅
On Aug. 15, NAMI is celebrating National Relaxation Day with a Digital Relaxation Day, and we're inviting you to join us.
Choose a block of time that works for you, put your devices aside and spend that time doing something that helps you relax, recharge or reconnect.
It could be 30 minutes, an hour or an entire afternoon. How you participate is up to you.
We'll share more ideas leading up to the day. 💚
#DigitalRelaxationDay
Some days I look at the clock and wonder who decided 24 hours was enough. 😂
There are so many hats to wear, people to love, responsibilities to handle, goals to chase, and dreams that still have my name on them.
I don’t balance it all perfectly. Some days one role gets more of me than another. Some things get moved to tomorrow. And sometimes the best I can do is simply show up, give myself grace, and keep going. ❤️
But this life? I’m grateful for it.
The busy days. The beautiful moments. The responsibilities. The people who depend on me. The people who believe in me. And the woman I’m becoming through all of it.
Would I take a few extra hours in the day? Absolutely. 😂
Would I change this life for the world? Not a chance. 💕🌱
#JustDeb #MyLife #BlessedAndBusy #GraceOverPerfection #StillGrowing #Purpose #GratefulHeart
It’s after 3 PM and I’ve officially entered the part of the day where I’m asking myself:
“Do I need coffee, a snack, a nap… or to simply stop answering people?” 😂😂
Decisions, decisions. 😩
#AfternoonThoughts#JustDeb#LifeWithDeb#Mood
Good morning! ☀️
Today’s agenda:
☕ Mind my business.
🙏🏾 Protect my peace.
😂 Laugh when I can.
🌱 Keep growing.
🚫 Stop explaining things that don’t require an explanation.
Happy Sunday, y’all! 💚
#JustDeb#SundayMood#ProtectYourPeace
Your brain doesn’t just decline with age—it can reorganize, refine, and keep learning. Experts at today’s APA 2026 Main Stage event discuss a paradox: aging brings real challenges, but also clearer priorities and greater emotional well-being. Learn more: https://t.co/WVBS5jtd3B
@APA Such an important reminder that aging isn’t only about what we may lose, but also what we continue to develop. Experience, perspective, emotional awareness, and clearer priorities have value too. 🧠🌱
I’m learning that every season doesn’t require an announcement.
Some things need privacy.
Some things need patience.
Some things need prayer.
And some things just need time to grow. 🌱
Protect the seed. Let them see the bloom.
Haven’t been on Twitter in years…
Came back a little wiser, a lot more intentional, and with a few things in the works. 🌱
2027 is loading, but we don’t have to talk about that just yet. 👀
For now… hey y’all. 💚