Young man:
Avoid single mothers like a plague
Okay maybe try them for recreational use or sexual research purposes but never commit
A woman with a child(ren) from another man/men is not your wife
Commiting where another man harvested 1 or more children makes you a cuck
Don't over stretch your luck in life, you will never succeed where another man failed
Remember, a man starts a family, he doesn't join one
Reject ready made families
Learn OR perish!!!
They don't make them like Mama G anymore, the one and only Patience Ozokwor. A symbol of a woman who prioritizes family above personal happiness
She got married very young, it is said to be 19 years, unfortunately her husband would pass away to a terminal ailment. She narrates how she may have wanted to remarry but her children who had come off age pleaded with her not to
Their reasoning was that they didn't want to be shamed that their mother had remarried. Asked if that wasn't selfish of them, she replied "there's no sacrifice too big for family"
Yet modern women sacrifice their family for their own personal happiness. If only these modern day actresses who jump from one man to another shamelessly could learn a thing or two from this icon
Learn OR perish!!!
A man can house, clothe and feed his wife all his life and not complain once
A woman can't house, clothe or feed her husband for just a month without complaining
How is marriage of benefit to men?
Learn OR perish!!!
Fellas:
If you're blessed enough to have more in your life, do share a little of it with your siblings and friends
When you uplift your siblings, you uplift your lineage
And you lessen the burden on yourself in times of crises, it means everyone can actually contribute
When you uplift your friends, you uplift your circle
Remember, the friends you have today are the same people your children will refer as connections in the future
Don't be consumed with the need to be the star in your family or circle. Besides, isn't the sky big enough for every star to shine?
Invest in your family and friends, grow together, become better together
Learn OR perish!!!
Young man:
The world isn't friendly to you as a man, life has never been & will never be easier for you
Yes, life doesn't get easier, you just become harder
And yes, life will always throw problems in your face, accepting this is the important step. You solve this problem, another one pops up
Don't sink in depression, drown in alcohol, swallowed by drugs or worse contemplate ending your life
When the going gets tough, the tough gets going, fight to survive
You can't be unlucky everyday, one day you will be rewarded
Learn OR perish!!!