i’ve found what strengthens relationships is catering to a persons needs. so if you are naturally quite independent but your partner enjoys feeling needed, finding little ways to show them they are useful & needed (even if you didn’t need that help) will make them feel fulfilled.
realizing everyday that the career I’m going into is WILDLY underfunded as I purchase my uniform for field work that I don’t get paid for but work full time for. If that makes sense
The sixth love language is ‘inclusion’
Include me in your day. include me in your plans and in your schedule. Include me in your ideas, your dreams, your thoughts. Include me in your outings, or staycations. “Let’s do...” and “I was thinking we should...”. This is a love language
Those police officers let those children and their teachers die because they aren’t real heroes, plain and simple. They get demonized because they suck at their fucking jobs. Real heroes don’t need “rewards” to be heroes
there are just no fucking words that capture the horror and insanity of more than a dozen children being shot to death in their elementary school. especially when it’s not the first time it’s happened. especially when you know nothing will change as a result.
My girl call me and don’t be having shit to talk abt just wanna hear from me. It use to annoy me til i understood that’s her love language. Its important to step outta your ego/wants and really analyze your partner.