Underrated life advice: Become a beginner again. Join a run club. Learn the piano. Take up painting. Try woodworking. Plant a garden. Teach yourself to cook. Whatever. It slows you down. It’s a small rebellion in a world that wants you to do everything with some purpose in mind.
belum lama ini, pas denger suara dia, i remember telling myself, “suatu hari nanti, kita pasti bakal jadi strangers lagi.” dari situ aja sebenarnya i already knew this moment wouldn’t last forever, tapi tetep aja i chose to enjoy it while i still could. bahkan aku mikir gitu sambil bikin playlist yang isinya full rekomendasi lagu dari dia.
but knowing it would end didn’t make it hurt any less. the day i finally realized that he really wasn’t coming back, i still cried. ternyata knowing someone will eventually leave and actually losing them are two completely different things.
sampai sekarang playlist itu masih ada, tapi i haven’t opened it again. bukan karena udah lupa, malah karena i remember too much. setiap lagunya masih terasa seperti potongan kecil dari masa itu. maybe someday i’ll be ready to listen to it again, but for now, i’ll just let the playlist stay untouched.
1. If you speak too much - You will lie.
2.If you think too much - You will be depressed.
3. If you care too much - You will taken for granted.
4. If you trust too much - You will be betrayed.
5. If you work too much - You will lose your life.
Don't be too much.
Because that too much can hurt
You so much.
i’m not your trauma dump friend! i like to go places & have fun too! don’t only come to me when yo life bad or with bad news!!! then be out hours later enjoying yourself with people you can’t vent to or have serious conversations with.. IT’S TIRING !
rasa sedih sebelum haid itu adalah rasa sedih yang paling tergajelas yang cuma di milikin sama cewe, serba dramatis, berasa ga disayang sedunia, dikit dikit nangis apa aja ditangisin njr 😫🙏🏻
Hari di mana ibuku meninggal, pagi harinya aku masih membeli pampers dewasa.
Pampers tsb akhirnya tak pernah terpakai & kami donasikan ke panti.
Tweet ini menyakiti setiap anak yg pernah menjadi caregiver orangtuanya yg sakit ataupun jompo. We need to deplatform unmagnetism
the amount of disrespect you will tolerate when youre in love is actually insane. then one day the blindfold comes off and youre like damn i really let you do all that
I’m in love with this sentence:
“Every pattern in your life repeats until you learn the lesson. The moment you choose differently, the loop ends and growth begins.”
gue baru sadar ternyata ada yang lebih gong dari acts of service. it’s being considered.
karena considerateness tuh menurut gue rare banget??? gak semua orang bisa consider orang lain, even when they’re genuinely nice. karena untuk consider seseorang, lo harus keluar dulu dari kepala lo sendiri.
lo harus notice:
“oh dia lagi meeting.”
“oh dia pasti capek.”
“oh dia gak pernah minta tolong.”
“oh kayaknya dia masih mau makan.”
“oh dia mungkin butuh ini.”
always check your own attitude too. it's not always the world around you, sometimes you are the toxic person. understand that you make mistakes and can hurt people. understand that there are things you need to work on. apologise, unlearn, and relearn, that's growth
a man’s desire to become a father is always paid for by a woman, with her body, her health, her career, and her freedom. But a woman’s desire to live in comfort is somehow considered materialistic.