every queer person I've met: i want to have a café when im older, but it's also a bookshop and it'll be a safe space for queer people and there will also be cats
having your emotions consistently invalidated as a child & one day waking up as an adult expected to validate your own emotions in order to set boundaries & trust your feelings over everyone else’s is an extremely wild fucking experience. be gentle with yourself. you’re learning.
having an abusive parent that breaks their back to provide for you is SO tumultuous like how can i hate you when you built a life for me from dust but also how can i not when you’ve hurt me so badly