You should study what makes you defensive. The topic you avoid, the joke that irritates you, the question that feels insulting, the feedback you instantly reject. Defensiveness is usually the guard dog sitting in front of a weakness you have not trained yourself to face.
casual dominance is so cute
-sitting me on ur lap
-grabbing my jaw to make me look into your eyes
-putting your hand on my back to guide me while we walk
-forehead kisses
-head pats !!
-calling me yours (MY girl, MY baby)
-kissing me in public
-holding my hand while crossing the street
Why wouldn’t God bless me? Why wouldn’t He show me favor after everything I’ve endured? Every setback built my character. Every struggle strengthened my faith. Every closed door pushed me closer to the life he had planned for me.