After no contact for 4 months, he sends kid a birthday card with a note to me about how we'll have to learn to co-parent. I so want to send him a long letter but I know he'll never understand and use it against me later.
Narcissists are known for sponging off people and exploiting people for 'freebies'. Theyl weasel their way into peoples homes, inheritance, various financial support and ensure they get a free ride. Beware: these leeches are bankupting home wreckers!