the claim that nonbinary lesbians are "invading" or redefining lesbianism isn't new. it's the latest version of a long history of trying to erase butches, transmascs, and other gender-diverse lesbians from our own community.
being a femme is much more than “your heart being in the night place”
it’s a strong political label, making it it known you actively stand against racism, transphobia, lesbophobia, homophobia. protecting others when they cannot like your femme predecessors.
in case u need some hopecore today: my fiance and i met through nsfw tumblr bc he stalked my acc and then started sending me deranged anons about all the things he wanted to do to me. i can safely say all those things have happened and we are HAPPILY engaged <3 DONT LOSE HOPE