I think itโs absolutely hilarious how if you call out a form of misogyny that is not horrendously overt violent and in your face you will immediately be accused of being an overly sensitive asshole who doesnโt actually care for womenโs rights
The problem is you want a version of feminism that men find comfortable. Why are we still measuring women's liberation by men's reaction to it? There has never been a point in history when men, as a class didn't describe feminism this exact way.