The greatest creative work is done by hermits, because sustained flow demands the most selfish and splendid isolation. You are not available for conversation. You will not run the errand, help check off tasks, administer, manage, handhold, guide, or indulge idle chatter.
The purest art of which you are capable requires absolute selfishness: freedom from every banal demand, passing mediocrity, and parasitic claim upon your attention. Only then can you fully channel your focus and pour your essence into the work.
Nothing else fucking exists.
Anything created under any other configuration is a compromise. The arbitrarily carved time slots. The interruptions. The divided attention. All of it is entropy.
Weak men create undisciplined homes, and undisciplined homes bleed into public life.
Every stranger who has to correct someone else's child or endure someone else's wife is paying a tax that a man somewhere refused to.
Do not make your wives and children other people's problem.
Men are in love, women are in business
Any man who still gets married to a woman simply because he loves her is an idiot who deserves whatever hell that woman will show him
If you should get married, only get married to a woman who has equally as much to lose, should you divorce
Marry a woman who has invested financially in that relationship too. The reason why women find it easy to leave marriages is because they don't invest financially whatsoever
A marriage is like a company. The husband being foolish is like thr partner who invests 90% whilst the women invests 10%. With the clause that should any partner want out, everything is shared 50/50
Why would the woman not want out? She's profiteering from little to no investment in such an arrangement
Learn OR perish
When you have no protection, capital, status, allies, or soft exit, you must treat everything strategically. You cannot casually absorb damage. You cannot assume harmlessness. You cannot afford incompetence. You cannot indulge naivety. Even the trivial becomes existential.
Men,
Finally, remember,
A weak body often creates a weak mind.
Therefore:
•Train.
• Lift.
• Run.
• Walk.
• Sweat.
Challenge yourself physically.
Every workout teaches you ONE lesson:
You are stronger than your excuses.
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A man's life philosophy
- Discipline
- Order
- Competence
Have a vision. Create a mission. Break your mission into smaller plans. Stick to these plans.
Attract the right network of men around you. Remain focused.
Be ruthless while at it.
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Much of my desire to be better is simply so I can love you in the way you deserve, rather than in the way I am able - and it is the gap between those two things that is absolute existential agony for me.
Men,
Learn to thrive and survive alone,
People will abandon you,
Your woman will abandon you,
But your spirit will NOT,
But your inner strength will NOT.
Be your own anchor.
YOU ARE A MAN
#MasculinitySaturday
RETURN TO SILENCE
The moment you realize that you are not living your life,
The moment you discover that you are sacrificing your health, wealth and welfare for a woman and you get nothing in return,
The moment you learn that you have become something else, an exhausted man, worn-out, used, haggard, a shadow of what you used to be,
That is when the reality begins to kick in.
You are a MANIPULATED MAN.
A MANIPULATED MAN has lost everything he owned.
His health, his sleep, his energy, his goal, his vision.
His woman is only warm to him when she wants to benefit, but becomes colder when it doesn't serve her.
Once this reality kicks in, a manipulated man returns to silence.
That silence terrifies both the manipulated man and his manipulative wife.
Because silence will become a mirror that tells the man THE TRUTH.
The manipulated man is terrified of the truth because truth will pierce his heart like a sharp sword slicing his pound of flesh.
The truth is that he has been living a lie, and this is the truth he fears.
But it is the truth.
The woman is also scared that the truth will restrict her access to the man, block benefits and wake up the man from his sleep.
It is here that the woman will tell the man,
"Your silent treatment is the reason I don't respect you anymore."
"If you continue treating me with your silence, I will leave, and you will never find a wife like me again."
"I am the only woman who understands you; no other woman can tolerate your silent treatment."
All these guilt-trips and gaslighting to keep the man under a tight leash of ignorance and manipulation.
And the man will become guilty, and attempt to go back to the old self,
The old manipulated man who chose comfortable silence instead of confrontation to keep the peace, and he continues to suffer in his peace, while tolerating manipulation because he is so terrified to return to silence.
DON'T BE AFRAID of SILENCE, because silence is where your truth lives.
Silence makes you see your shadow and observe its depth.
Silence makes a man see his flaws and his weaknesses.
Silence makes you connect with your spiritual truthfulness.
Silence makes you see who truly values you and who says she values you just because of the emotional, psychological and financial access you gave them.
RETURN TO SILENCE,
You will see what your ordinary self never saw.
SILENCE is the antidote to EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION.
#ManDay
Skills that have nothing to do with money but are worth dedicating an immense amount of practice to:
- semen retention
- disciplining the gaze
- breaking bloodline patterns
- manual labour daily
- decrypting dreams
- digesting Gods silence
- swallowing humiliation consciously
- transmuting sexual rage
- blessing an enemy sincerely
- navigating feminine deception
- entertaining madness sober
- obeying nothing internally but your will
- holding power unannounced
- reading bone structure
- starving the character
- feeding the shadow
- choosing pain voluntarily
- refusing comfort during grief
- commanding your fear verbally
- sitting inside guilt until it teaches you
- walking at night
- reading a face
- breath control under rage
- sleeping on floors
- killing an identity
- commanding a demonic thought
- digesting betrayal cold
- eating alone
- staring at fire