I am so blessed! Super grateful! I have solid folks all around me!! Ahh!!
Planning a party and my fam and frands chipping in/helping without me having to ask! Love that for me 🥰🤗
I’ve found that asking “what did you hear me say?” or “is that what i said?” or “repeat back to me what you heard” is very helpful in conversation. Like VERY.
I put in a few book requests at my local library the other day, and so they called me today, stating one of them arrived!
Yay!! I'm excited for it lol 😆
Alexithymia, I'm glad this is being talked about. I dnt always know how I'm feeling right in the moment. I need time to process. I express that, but
folks will still try to say you're starting drama when it's talked about days later
Delayed emotional processing sucks because when people ask, "Why didn't you tell me that bothered you earlier?" you need to explain that it normally takes 3-5 business days to realize you were bothered.
@1804_gang That part. They are definitely trying to take advantage! Scare him into thinking it's the end all be all. Glad your bro talked to u cus I'm sure they've gotten folks to give in before smh
Thing is, folks are too individualistic to think for the collective. But that's what they do, divide us.
When we rlly think about it, why can't folks afford BASIC necessities? Our tax dollars should be helping the community. That's what was fought for, representation!
Bullshiett!
So my brother who’s 18 and this is his last year of high school and his graduation is this week on the 29th, he works at Arby’s and do yall know that these ppl said he can’t request off for his graduation…
I told him, yeah go ahead and find another job. Cause excuse me????
a strange yet true thing... I've never lost any money being generous... somehow that money always spun the block for me....
But I've always lost money being stingy, selfish, and self serving
If you're finding this weird, it could be one of two things, you sexualize everything in your interactions or experienced sexual trauma from family members.
One thing for sure is that you shouldn't be sexualizing your family