@j4ppleby You should watch Jonathan Glazer's Zone of Interest. Your lovely neighbours can be quite nice people who look the other way if it doesn't affect them.
@JamesBSumner@Dorianlynskey If someone asks you to pronounce it a certain way, you should have a go. With my name [Frances] it is a western name, whereas with Kamala people pronounce things how they want without questioning.
If pronouncing it the northern way was important to my identity i might ask