This was me at 17. I left school that year and finished my studies in college instead because I refused to wear a school uniform (which was not required by law in Scotland but I'd get sent home regardless). I was really into indie sleaze, rave and the 80s. These were the days of Hadouken, MIA, Santigold and The Gossip. The days of Skins and Misfits. That'll give the millennials among you some context.
I wore eye make-up half the time, neon pink shoelaces in my hair, snakebites on my lips and chunky 80s gangsta chains. I never once thought of myself as anything other than a teenage boy and neither did anybody else. In my mind, it wasn't even anything to do with sexual orientation. In fact, I had a girlfriend at one point that year.
Growing up is about having less responsibilities in life and therefore more freedom to explore different things. None of it should be a permanent scar on your body should you abandon it. None of it should be made to dictate your identity forever.
I may not dress like this anymore but from every phase in my youth I kept something - with this one, the neons. The rest naturally went away because that's what happens when you're young, you're constantly changing. Imagine those shoe laces were forever sewn to my head with no way to remove them. Would I be happy? No.
Enjoy your youth. I don't cringe at any of the styles I adopted then and that surprises many but I honestly did and still do think I looked cool. But that's not the main reason I don't cringe - I don't cringe because these phases remind me of my ability to be free, have fun and not put myself in a prison of identity. I never caved in to peer pressure when it came to my style, either.
I still change aspects of my look all the time as I have always done and will probably always do. And I thank this kid for never turning that into a living nightmare. He was just having fun and not giving a fuck.
So do that. Stop giving a fuck. Stop giving a fuck about which pronouns people use for you, what you should or shouldn't be identifying as, what procedures you think will solve all your problems or make you feel part of something bigger than yourself and just have fun while you can. Be free. You have so little time to be truly free.
They knew what a woman was when they owned us as property.
They knew what a woman was when they denied us the vote.
They knew what a women was when they refused us bank accounts.
They knew what a woman was when we still couldn’t purchase a home alone in 1982.
They still know.
@_scornful_one@Sarah_FU46@MrMennoTweets No I don't have a son. It's impossible to change the sex you were born. Maybe you need to go study biology. You are deluded
@animalanonim0@Sarah_FU46@MrMennoTweets Have you listened to The Court of the EDIJester on your tube, he talks a lot about this. My daughter is most likely gay. shes 14, but wants to be a boy. https://t.co/v0haB966sh
@Sarah_FU46@MrMennoTweets Watch The Court of the EDIJester on You Tube. This guy has done SOOO much research into Gender ID. He's a gay guy who is horrified at what is happening to gay children. Have a listen:
https://t.co/v0haB966sh
@MrMennoTweets My daughter is 14, and thinks she's a boy. I find it all so sad. Its just another form of body hatred for young women. I try and drop seeds all the time, to make her realise that you can't change sex, they have been fed a lie :-(
@specalot @RosieDuffield1 This Government has failed children by allowing partisan beliefs to become entrenched within the education system. Meanwhile, the Opposition has failed to pull them up on it.
✍️ @RosieDuffield1 in the Foreword for this report.
Parents place overwhelming trust in their child’s school to ensure they are kept safe from harm. This @Policy_Exchange report reveals a systemic safeguarding blind spot when it comes to gender-distressed children and their peers.
Tanya Carter [SSA] said that a public inquiry was 'well overdue' & described the situation as 'simply shambolic'. @RosieDuffield1 ‘A generation of children are being let down, because well-established #safeguarding standards are being compromised.’
https://t.co/7J5ZZKdQZm