I gotta marry somebody that takes holidays seriously. A family person. Birthdays, graduations, anniversaries etc, must all be celebrated fully in my household😌
• And finally, the third is the most beautiful; when you really grow in love, and you see their perfect imperfections, when they know how to fix problems without the need for yelling or hurtful words, when you really learn to love.
This is the decision stage.
One minute you’re in uni thinking of how to make it to another semester without carry overs, the next minute you’re working, paying never ending bills and trying to figure out life. 🫡
It’s ok to not know how to dress initially
It’s ok to drink milk for some time
But after fellowshipping with the saints
After drinking and dining with the Holyghost
We are expected to grow
We are expected to come up hither
my biggest 🚩 is that i’ve normalised silent treatment when im not in mood for a talk. i don’t really know how to express my feelings especially when im sad and hurt. i only talk to myself in my head about how i feel all the time.
Today, I'm incredibly grateful for my wonderful friends.☺️ I have had the privilege of meeting numerous great minds,and I'm particularly grateful for the ones who are part of my circle.
They've seen me at my lowest points,yet they have never ceased to celebrate and support me.
Normalize saying "I don't think we have the kind of relationship that should make you comfortable enough to say that to me" when someone tries to get too familiar.
Am I the only one that doesn’t feel like talking sometimes?
I mean nothing is wrong with me, I feel okay, but I just don’t want to talk or be social, I just want to go about my day in silence.
I don’t even want to be talked to or interact with anyone! I just want to be quiet
Once when I was young, around 8 or so, we had a garage sale. My siblings and I were killing time riding our bikes along the sidewalk and this guy stopped in. But he wasn't there to buy anything.
He went up to my mom, introduced himself and said he'd stopped because he saw us...
Tip from a licensed therapist: on your partner’s birthday, be very intentional about celebrating them outside of their role in relation to you! Now is a time to highlight all the things that make them them & not what they do for you as a partner. Save that for anniversaries
Early last year, I decided to spend the weekend with a friend who bakes. That Saturday morning, we slept in because we were up late the previous night talking and catching up. So when someone came knocking so early in the morning, we were a bit annoyed as we haven’t had enough