I think it's unappealing when someone can sexualize me and offer me sex all day, but can't actually be there for me mentally and offer an emotional safe space. it's giving me leech/parasite type energy.
being a sexually liberated woman thatโs genuinely unashamed of her desires makes you realize the majority of men are not โfreakyโ at all. they sexualize and objectify, but know nothing about providing *true* pleasure or intimacy. just overly horned out and boring.