Anyone who preaches about being "above politics" simply lacks the stomach to observe and wield power. Power games are played everywhere: family, office, social relationships, institutions, everywhere which involves human interaction. Refusing to acknowledge the game doesn't make you exempt from the game. It just makes you an easier target to play with.
Women are naturally indecisive, gullible and vulnerable. That is why they thrive in the presence of men or get conned, misled and punished if there is no man, father or husband guiding and protecting her.
Pain is the only alchemy that matters. nothing transmutes flesh into divinity faster than agony properly held. the great lie of this century is that suffering is always bad, to be avoided at all costs, even by those who know better, even by those who preach that sacrifice is the heart of love but still try to live pain free lives, because they have not yet understood the difference between suffering and sacrifice, between pain endured and pain chosen. all pain burns equally at the level of nerve ending, but only the pain embraced will give you wings. the rest is just shrieking meat. nothing else turns man to angel faster than the pain he accepts willingly for a greater love
Become dangerously educated. Be well-learned. Be harder to fool, sharper in conversation, and better at reading situations. Draw on centuries of knowledge and wisdom. Learn relentlessly. An informed mind is hard to manipulate, intimidate, or contain.
Protect your reputation.
As a man, your reputation is your key to opportunities.
If your reputation is under siege due to overwhelming allegations,
Don't repudiate the allegations, you will dig deeper.
Keep silent, and let your accusers fight the validity of the allegations.
Men,
When you meet a man,
Talking to himself and counting fingers,
He is:
• Counting his losses
• Redesigning his purpose.
• Zooming his focus.
Don't interfere. Let him build and rebuild the foundation of his dream.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
When you tell yourself, "She's just going through a lot,"
That's the sentence you use to excuse being ignored again.
Desire does not need an explanation. It shows up, or it doesn't.
Stop negotiating for something that is freely given.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
There are men six hours after no reply,
They will still be typing, "Babe, I am just checking in."
That is not being patient. That is simping.
Put your phone down and focus on building your life.
Let her chase the man who is busy with his mission.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
The woman you are wasting your money on
• Buying flowers
• The latest phone
• Exquisite hotels
is taking advantage of you because you are ignorant.
Another man is chewing her with just a bowl of boiled beans, water, and salt.
STOP SIMPING.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
As you talk to yourself,
Visualize your purpose and clarify your goals in life.
Talk silently, confidently with affirmation.
Talking to yourself connects you to your masculine spirit.
So, when you meet a man talking to himself, don't interfere.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
Here is an important reminder,
DO NOT FORCE YOURSELF INTO A WOMAN'S LIFE.
If a woman wants to be with you, she will be with you, no matter what hurdles.
If she doesn't want, leave her alone.
Using your money to buy affection is a lack of wisdom.
#MasculinitySaturday
On A Hierarchical Perspective: You will rarely be told directly that your position has weakened. However, others will become slower to reply, more comfortable cancelling, less careful with promises, and increasingly willing to test small boundaries. Status erosion usually happens through tiny violations before it becomes blatant disrespect.
The easiest way to suffer is to make a deal with the cosmos to give the suffering meaning.
I have spoken to the universe and come to the conclusion that every day I gracefully accept these conditions without complaint, my children will enjoy a stress-free day of happiness and physical safety.
This allows me to be proud of suffering gracefully and go to sleep with my children in mind. The harder it is for me, the happier my children will be.
Apply this to your own life.
Suffering stops being suffering with meaning.
A simple way to generate endless luck in life.
Want to win every time you go to the casino?
Want to win every coin flip?
Want things to always work out in your favor?
It’s extremely simple.
When God decides it’s time for you to suffer, do it gracefully and honorably with your head held high.
Everyone must suffer, and God hates complainers.
He hates men who moan and bitch and feel sorry for themselves.
Get through it with dignity intact and watch how hard you win when it’s all over.
This is how you become formidable: combine several ordinary skills into something rare. Writer. Philosopher. Behaviorist. Marketer. Strategist. Mathematician. You don't need extraordinary talent. You need multiple common skills that only you can combine in a unique way. This is what makes you rare
Your natural advantages don’t feel impressive because they come without effort. You take them for granted. You overlook the skills that others find hard to build. Look closely at the things that feel easy for you. The path to mastery often begins with the strengths you’ve stopped noticing. They were always there quietly shaping your life. You just never saw them as special. They were too simple.. Behind that simplicity lies something deep. The powerful abilities are often the ones you never had to work for. That’s why you forget to value them.. The truth is, those effortless talents are rare. They’re the core of your real strength.
No matter your field, you must think of yourself as a builder, using actual materials and ideas.
You are producing something tangible in your work, something that affects people in some direct, concrete way.
We find individuals who are more aggressive than others—they tend to be leaders, the ones who sense the styles and trends of the time and express them first.
They have far less fear about breaking with the past and defying the older generation.