I used to tell myself “maybe they're going through something” to justify the way people treated me. But then I realised I was going through a lot too, and I still never treated anyone that way.
One thing I’ve learned is when your spirit tells you to fall back from certain people, listen. Every time I ignored that feeling, I ended up seeing exactly why it was there in the first place. Sometimes nothing major even happens.
my biggest 🚩 is that i’ve normalised silent treatment when im not in mood for a talk. i don’t really know how to express my feelings especially when im sad and hurt. i only talk to myself in my head about how i feel all the time.
I’ve had a pretty emotional day today 😫 life is kicking my ass in every aspect possible. I need to shift my focus back to the positive things I have going on.
As you get older you have to learn how to see AND understand BOTH SIDES. I personally feel like sometimes people may not like to talk to me because I'm not biased. Idc if you my friend, family, or lover. If you're wrong, YOURE WRONG. And i will tell you that! You can't take (1/3)