kavinsky kidnapping ronan's brother bc he thinks ronan wants gansey over him but instead ronan's just like "ok yeah i am gay but i'm not gay for gansey and definitely not gay for you are you crazy"
@ErgoEcho@completeepicne1@aggadahGothic wonder if this is more Latin influence than Spanish influence specifically (presuming viva and diva set the precedent)
this is not to engage with the whole discourse around this rn btw literally like . Whatever everyone stay safe im more concerned w/ engaging my community atp i just think this is one of the worst arguments i have seen in my life
americans do not expereince summer, they go from their AC pod (home) to their AC pod (car) to their AC pod (work or shopping) and drive back using an AC pod (car)
@TheDylanRoca it’s a linguistic phenomenon happening in real time and it’s so cool to witness!! words tend to backshift & start to place stress on the first syllable when they stop being new and start referring to A Thing.
the only problem is i literally can’t do it like i try to disconnect from my feelings and it makes me sick and want to cry which is probably like control issues from trauma but we move
i am someone who also has been subjected to CBT for years and genuinely thought therapy would never work for me but my current therapist specializes in ACT and i genuinely can’t wrap my head around the fact that’s an option
my first session i was like “i know logically nothing bad is going to happen/is happening but my emotions aren’t connecting to my brain like that” and that’s something i parroted for years and she was like “this is one where you actually don’t think” and i was sold