Andai sudah tiba waktunya, semoga Allah mempermudahkan setiap urusan. Andai belum, semoga Allah terus mengurniakan kesabaran dan ketenangan. Kami bertawakal dan menyerahkan sepenuhnya kepada Allah…
@RealSunBros The loyalty of a man is in the consistent and reliable execution of his responsibilities, rather than the rom-com version of ‘you are the only woman for me’.
One time I was at work and realized I didn’t have a pad.
I asked my coworker if she had one.
She handed me one, I thanked her, and went to the bathroom.
A few seconds after putting it on, I felt something I had never experienced in my life.
It felt like my vagina was taking deep breaths.
There was a sudden cool, tingling sensation that had me standing in the stall questioning every life choice that led me to that moment.
I marched back to my desk and asked my coworker, “What is wrong with your pads? Why does it feel like my vagina is breathing?”
She looked horrified.
Then she remembered that a.........
You really understand grandkids when you've got two... and realize real quick, one is not like the other.
One of them sits nicely, uses their manners, and could probably host a tea party for royalty without breaking a sweat.
The other one? I'm pretty sure if I turned my back for five minutes, they'd reorganize the house, the dog, and possibly my entire belief system.
One says, "Grandma/Grandpa, may I please have a cookie?"
The other is already eating it... and negotiating tor two more.
I love them both the same-but let's just say one of them came with an instruction manual... and the other one came with a warning label. 😂❤️
"٩٤٪ من عينات سجاد المساجد بالرياض كان فيها نمو بكتيري لكن نسبة البكتيريا الممرضة من هذا الرقم ما تتجاوز ١.٣٪ فقط"
عبر دراسة ميدانية تم فيها أخذ مسحات من سجاد ١٠٠ مسجد موزعة عشوائياً في ٥ مناطق بالرياض. الباحثين استهدفوا أكثر الأماكن زحمة: المداخل والصف الأول (أماكن السجود) والنتيجة أثبتت أن الغالبية العظمى من البكتيريا هي مجرد "فلورا" طبيعية مسالمة من جلد المصلين.
لكن النقطة اللي وقفت عندها فعلاً في هالدراسة هي الـ ٥.٦٪ من العينات التي (لم ينمو فيها أي نوع من البكتيريا تماماً)!
هذا الرقم هو اللي المفروض نركز عليه، أكثر من تركيزنا على نسب التلوث.
التوجه الصحيح في الصحة العامة هو أننا نحدد هذي المساجد النظيفة جداً (الـ ٥.٦٪)، ونحلل "بروتوكول التنظيف" الخاص فيهم:
كيف يهوون المكان؟ إيش نوع المعقمات؟ وكيف يمنعون رطوبة الوضوء من الوصول للسجاد؟
مساجدنا بيئة آمنة والأرقام ما تخوف ومناعتنا قادرة تتعامل مع الفلورا الطبيعية، لكن الاستفادة من تجارب التنظيف الناجحة وتعميمها بيصنع فرق عظيم.
Worth a read! 😍
My mom wanted to send me homemade pickles. But I said ‘no’.
I was 27, living in New York, working on Wall Street. I didn't need pickles shipped across the world. The shipping would cost more than buying them here.
Three years later, I read the psychologist take on what I'd actually done. When you reject someone's offer to help, you're not just declining assistance. You're declining their need to matter to you!
Benjamin Franklin figured this out in 1736. He had a rival in the Pennsylvania legislature who hated him. Instead of trying to win him over with favors, Franklin asked the rival to lend him a rare book.
The rival agreed. They became lifelong friends. It's called the Ben Franklin effect.When people do something for you, they convince themselves they must like you. Otherwise, why would they help?
My mom didn't want to send pickles because I needed them.
She wanted to send them because SHE needed to feel useful to me. To feel like despite the ocean between us, she still had a role in my life.
Every time I said "I'll manage," I was taking that away from her. Here's what I learned after a decade of living away from home:
→ Accepting small favors isn't about you needing help.
It's about letting people you love feel needed.
Your dad wants to transfer ₹5000 even though you earn well?
Let him.
Your friend wants to pick you up from the airport even though Uber exists?
Say yes.
Your partner wants to make you tea even though you can make it yourself?
Accept it.
The people who love you don't want to solve your big problems. They want to matter in your small moments.
Let them. #lifelesson
The phantom ring sensation is back. Ring finger left hand. I always think it’s linked to the heart. I mean whut if I have heart issues.
Time to do the online research.
M’sians who grew up with this window would never choose this again bcoz it’s the window where you realised as a kid your family is poor haha.
Only hippie designers will romanticize this along with bare concrete finish. 😂