Proof that Black leads don’t always have to be in stories about slavery, poverty, or police brutality. Sometimes we can just be vampires, witches, kings, and queens too.
Be careful with this idea that ‘everyone is replaceable.’ Some people are one-of-a-kind. If you lose them, life won’t hand you another version. You don’t meet certain souls twice
this old lady just said to me “growth is realizing that someone’s inconsistency is a sign to step back, not a challenge to prove your worth” and i think y’all need to engrave this into your soul.
on my 26th birthday, i wrote I Took A Pill in Ibiza...11 years ago. The song became popular several years after i wrote it.
This year I celebrated my 37th birthday. I feel proud to look at the song lyrics and know that NONE of them are true anymore. I've grown into a completely new man...one that i'm proud of. check this out...
being a “girls girl” also includes holding your friends accountable when they’re wrong. “I love you girl, but what you did was not a good reflection of who you are”
People pleasing
Avoidant attachment style
Isolating in bad times
Never asking for help
Being scared to fail
Overcompensating for your disadvantages
No it didn't
most relationships taught me the more chances you give ppl, the less they value you. they aren’t afraid to lose you bcoz they know no matter what, you won’t walk away. never let anybody get too comfortable with disrespecting you. love yourself and choose distance over disrespect.
best dating advice i’ve gotten was: the signs you ignore in the beginning just end up being the reason you leave later. you know right away who’s good and who’s bad for you, don’t ignore that.