Because women focus on associations and men focus on tasks. He needed to get himself water, he got himself water. You left the comraderie you had going with him to get water, so you brought him some too. He grocery shops cause the family needs food. You do the same, but you also shop to make your family feel good.
This is a spectrum but the point is that men are less likely to think about associations and more likely to think linearly.
The true measure of his disregard isn't if he doesn't think to see if you need water, the true measure of disregard is if he refuses to do things you ask for that are not burdensome.
If you're wondering how Amber Heard is comfortably raising 3 children as a single mother who has been unemployed for several years, it's cuz Elon Musk is literally a trillionaire
Women should not have to share a home with men
Most of these men literally just eat too much, walk too loud and cause energetic disturbances to the family unit
I have seen one male’s energy completely destroy the power of my favorite Amethyst in real time. I literally had to place the crystal in a special box and let it recharge in an old growth forest for 111 days before it was even remotely useful again
Their lack of menstrual cycle also makes it nearly impossible for them to change or grow as they are just recirculating the same blood and hormones day after day
Obviously, men are part of our human community but they need to sleep in a shed outside and come in for meals and visitation only
But yeah, there’s SAHM of three whose husband makes 40K a year and posted that she “doesn’t understand how families afford vacation,” but she was comparing herself to a mom who works in FAANG (and so does her husband), they only have 1 child, and they go to Italy every summer.
@Favwontmiss My ex and I are still mates and I told him that I now have ADHD and he did something yesterday that makes me think he’s done some research - he msged me at 2 to ask if he could call me at 7. Really made me able to plan for it and look forward to it!
It was a brilliant move.
everyone who is saying ‘parents need to be prepared for a disabled child for the rest of their lives, if they want to have a baby’ are being euphemistic.
They mean mothers.
Every severely disabled child I know is being taken care off primarily by their mom.
Liquid gold and child sustenance, yes. But it’s still a private body fluid IMO. Showing me breastmilk forces me to think about all the shoving / prodding / squeezing your boob goes through and I don’t need those thoughts please. 🙏
The Lululemon (work out) leggings hype is sooooo valid. They’re really soft, stretchy, long etc but unfortunately they’re so damn quick to show sweat marks and that’s one thing I absolutely cannot and will not tolerate in workout clothes. Seems Me + Nike driFit 🔐 ♾️