ppl want to pretend like people pleasing can not be harmful to others but it very much can be. i dated a serial people pleaser for 4 years who severely betrayed the hell out of me due to people pleasing. +
We need to be better at honoring our commitments. I think our generation has been pretty bad at doing this. We think it’s okay to just ghost people without goodbyes, cancel last minute on friends and family, quit jobs without 2 week notice. +