Calm men will always be my favorite, I find gentle, calm men auras so attractive. Imagine being with a man who's good at comforting you, who doesn't yell at you when he's upset, when talking to him ease your anxiety. Feeling safe with someone is a different kind of intimacy.
If you’re an adult and you want to maintain connections and friendships the only thing you really have to do is SHOW UP. You don’t realize how much people notice your presence/absence in important milestones