dear white settlers
when someone points out your whiteness or your settlerness as reasons your opinion might not be objective, immediately mentioning how poor you were growing up is not even slightly germane, and is a signal that you do not understand the criticism at all.
The main reason I don’t like being the only woman in D&D groups is because one morning my noble (who was dealing with some family trauma) showed up with BANGS and none of the other players realized the emotional turmoil that this implied.
I really truly wish that the disabled, chronically ill, and immunocompromised communities had actual allies. The wall of silence on the so-called left and among so-called progressive leaders is absolutely shameful and that’s exactly how it will go down in history.
I know this is "business as usual" -- emphasis on the business -- for all marginalized groups in the US (and why stop there? The US government hasn't!). But... fuck. It doesn't have to be this way. It could be good. None of this had to happen. None of this was inevitable.
Sensory overload can feel like being in the biggest crowd you can imagine, but it’s a roller disco with strobe lighting, and the room is moving so quickly that you can’t see clearly, think straight or understand what anyone is saying - multiplied by 10.