I want someone who is intellectually curious about me. Someone who observes me without rushing to decide who I am, who asks questions, leaves room for discovery, and understands that knowing me is an ongoing process. I don’t want to be analyzed into a box. I want to be continually discovered.
This retrograde is stripping away every proxy for real identity. Who are you when you can’t hide behind your work, your status, your follower count, validation, or your financials? Who are you when the external noise dies down and survival mode turns off? That unedited, baseline version of you is demanding an audience, and it's time you finally meet them! They will be the ones who makes fear shake!
Last night a girl told me she pays attention to whether the people she dates nurture anything in their lives, like a plant, a pet, a project. It’s useful evidence that someone can sustain care over time. Relationships are also living things that need tending
Nobody has my permission to pull cards on me, pray for me, astro project to me or over me, look into my akashic records, surveillance me, study my birth chart or spiritually spy on me in any capacity.
- write your notes by hand
- don't just copy points from the lecture slides, reword it in a way that makes sense to you.
- do the reading. print out physical copies that you can highlight, annotate, and underline.
- practice explaining the concept (verbally or in writing)
Autism: I need a predictable job.
ADHD: I need a stimulating job.
AuDHD:
I need a job that is predictable and stimulating.
Structured, but not rigid.
Stable, but not boring.
Creative, but with clear edges.
Surprising only in the good ways.
The requirements are specific.
And completely real.
There's a Japanese proverb that says:
Fall 7 times get up 8.
Libra is the 7th sign. Scorpio is the 8th sign.
The proverb describes what transitioning from Libra Szn to Scorpio Szn feels like for some people. The real ego death happens in Libra Szn because the Sun falls in Libra. Loss of identity and defeat are often felt the hardest in Libra Szn. Scorpio Szn is where the power is harnessed again.
You might be down now...
But you'll rise again.
My only advice to y’all for this Venus retrograde:
-Take a hint. Don’t overstay your welcome.
-Don’t be a dizzy Dora hoe.
-You can’t change them. Experience them as they are and like it…or leave.
-No grey areas. A clear Yes or a clear No.
-Do not spin the block.
Having a natal Mercury Rx and constantly thinking “I said that already” “I mentioned that weeks ago” “I tried to tell you” but folks do not listen lmaoo
Same with people overlooking my value in general just to come back weeks, months, years later like “you were onto something”
i am always number one. i always score the highest. i am extremely intelligent. i am brilliant. i am successful. i am always the first choice. i am extraordinarily capable. i am always ahead. i am a winner. i am the luckiest. i am abundant. i am destined for greatness
i wish i had realized sooner it’s not even possible to progress spiritually without interpersonal friction or even ppl who are fundamentally (or committed to) opposing you. how arrogant of me
i’m so financially spoiled it’s crazyyyy. i never have to worry about money, i can afford the life i want & there’s always more than enough waiting for me. 💲