Mostly harmless. Rudely stamped. Post-mature anti-fascist. Average self-esteem and a hoodie. Thirstiest one there is. Not on a boat.
White. Cishet. He/him. ♿️
i fantasize sometimes about a woman who comes over to my house, gets naked, then
builds me a 40 tb storage/server rig that i can keep in my room to replace too many external drives
and then we do have sex
but the computer thing is surprisingly key to the fantasy
"Postdocs are underpaid; Stanford recently purchased housing that was intended to be affordable for them, then reportedly set minimum salary requirements for living there higher than their wages. "
Do we have any nationally representative studies of postdocs to add to?
@insatiableone yeah, it's really hard to untangle this kind of thing
and thousands of people do finish their dissertations every year- it's not impossible
it just was for me, in the end
@insatiableone i feel i was trapped by my disability- there were large classes of jobs i wasn't even up for trying, and "professor" seemed like the best job i could actually potentially get
"seemed" being a very key word here
@insatiableone grad school was obviously a mistake in retrospect
(and i have to try to be kind to myself over making that mistake)
but i don't think i could have known that at the time
Yes! We are also in the middle of a mass disabling event, so of course more students will be disabled. There are more resources about disability and accommodations than when I was in school, and the process is *still* hell even if more people are attempting to go through it
@dogstarrz people are mad because lois lane is mad at clark kent (who she likes) for lying to her about something important?
really?
i guess they've never seen a romcom before?