my therapist told me the only way to control your emotions is to show them. you can’t control sadness you never show. then your sadness turns to anger, hostility, bitterness and resentment. and you have officially created a monster.
An easy way to increase agency is to remove "problem" from your vocabulary and replace it with "puzzle". It sounds absurd but "problem" activates your amygdala and "puzzle" activates your prefrontal cortex. Try it. Self-induced placebo that works.
Every anarchist on here loves to go “no we’re not inventing ‘time’ we’re inventing ‘froopus’ which is basically just time but described more annoyingly.”
No one tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain to allow amazing things to happen after experiencing trauma or pain. Blessings exist, good people exist, and a softer life exists. Let it happen.
I love how LowTierGod is just so insane that he can’t even have an opinion as simple as ‘’Vaccines are good’’ without going on the most deranged rant ever
I think it’s really interesting that liberals do not want to socially associate with conservatives but conservatives desperately want social acceptance to be separate from political ideology.
not to be postmachiavellian on main but if you want to really squash your enemies long term you actually have to legitimately wish them well and not in a fake way. the winning move is to wish them well in your mind. you can only wish them well when you yourself are well. so you have to wish yourself well. you only win when you are truly okay with both you and your enemy winning. if you don’t understand this, good luck being a loser. 👍
Warmie’s visor popped a fracture and this thawhead asks if we had any hot glue. Whole phalanx lost their shit. Brother, if we did, we’re not using it for repairs, I can tell you that. Rub some ice in it and keep moving!