SOCIAL MEDIA got EEEEERRRRBODY feeling like they got so many options. YOU DON'T. Pay attention to the people who love, value, & hold you down IN REAL LIFE. The internet might make it look like there's plenty of fish in the sea, but most of it AIN'T WORTH CATCHING.
y’all think cheating is the only reason relationships end when in reality y’all have zero compassion, no consideration for others, not affectionate, barely go on dates, attitude filthy, and inconsistent as hell.
Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, a softer life exists. Let it happen.
in the process of moving on i realized i didn’t have an anxious attachment style. i was attached to someone who constantly made me feel anxious, out of place, and insecure. sometimes it takes removing yourself from certain people to really learn yourself.
forming deep friendships with people who are patient, emotionally available and vocal with their appreciation for you is important, because it sets a great standard to hold our romantic / other non-platonic bonds to
when i start crying because of stress‚ it turns into crying over family‚ crying over my past mistakes‚ crying over losing my person‚ crying over the fact that they’ll leave me eventually‚ crying about my body‚ and crying over about my entire life.