I have never come back from any holiday feeling relaxed, refreshed & reinvigorated to get back into work.
I come back with the taste of freedom, still fresh in my mouth, a renewed hatred for work, and a strong suspicion that this is not what I should be spending my life doing.
"Good girl" conditioning has us believing our role is: to get other people to like or approve of us in social settings, to not "rock the boat", and to betray our own needs in order to appear selfless.
HERE'S HOW TO UNLEARN IT:
finding peace by finally acknowledging there’s no self-sustaining tupperware organizing system. the shelf or drawer will always slip into disarray and simply needs periodic maintenance to keep it functioning