The best thing I learned in my twenties is that you really have to put yourself on a certain pedestal. Like yes, you're better than that, you're bigger than that, you can't associate yourself with that, you can't even entertain that. Be selective, be certain 💕
Grief changes you … I’ve never been so emotionally UNSTABLE in my life. One minute I’m happy. Next I’m irritated asf. One day I might wanna kick it. The next ion wanna be bothered. BUT I will say, I appreciate the few that deal with my distance.. my mood swings.. my EVERYTHING.
I’m sorry but, if all u got to bring to the table in a relationship as a woman are your looks and sex, recheck yourself. Can’t expect a high value man when all u got to bring to the table is that. Just how women don’t like bums, men don’t like bums either.